Compared with Mother's Day, the upcoming Father's Day seems to be less warm and more heavy. The stress of fathers, and middle-aged men at their father's age, has become a more talked-about topic. Work, family, interpersonal, psychological... Many problems make people confused for a while. Do you see these tangible or intangible pressures?

More than 9 adults think that being a man is not easy. Father's Day gifts do not seek warmth and stress relief

When it comes to festivals like this, the first thing most people think of is to give gifts. The reporter noticed that some small household appliances such as massage pillows and massage sticks have been labeled as "Father's Day" recently. In an online store, a massage pillow priced at 148 yuan sold more than 2,400 pieces in the past month. From the evaluation of these buyers, it can be seen that most of them buy it back to honor their father. Compared with the hot-selling flowers, chocolates and other gifts that focus on warm cards on Mother's Day, Father's Day gifts obviously focus on the "decompression" card.

Yes, this is according to the needs of the fathers. Seeing this, let's first understand a term "structural mid-life crisis", referred to as mid-life crisis, also known as male mid-life crisis. Many psychologists have put forward different views on this. Some people think that the mid-life crisis peaks at the age of 35 to 40; a researcher at Yale University believes that the age of 35 to 45 is an obvious mid-life crisis period; of course, also Some people think that midlife crisis is not determined by biological age, but a person's psychological state. People with proper mental preparation can spend more smoothly.